So, I hate to give away the punchline right away, but here goes.

You.

You’re the golden ticket. The determining factor. The MVP.

Whether dating has gone well for you in the past or not is actually irrelevant. 

So… what is relevant?

How YOU decide you’re going to show up from this point forward.

Let me tell you a story. My ex told me no one would want to date me if we split up. 

Guess what?

He was wrong.

But it doesn’t matter. I didn’t let him decide what my future would look like.

I learned from that experience. I made the conscious decision that I was in charge of how dating went for me, and I changed the story I told around it. I decided that I wasn’t the girl who attracted drama. I wasn’t the girl who would fall in love too fast because I didn’t know how to give myself the love I craved.

After A LOT of healing, I discovered that I never truly felt worthy. I used external validation to make up for what I lacked inside. I can’t even explain how freeing it is to discover something gut-wrenching like this and have the opportunity to shift the story around it!

I actually know what I’m looking for now. I only go out with men whose values and vision for life align with mine.  

I show up as myself. 

Dating is super stressful when you’re trying to remember what you told the other person in order to feel accepted: what you like and don’t like, what you’re looking for, and who you are. 

Don’t put up a front. You’re worthy just as you are. It’s not helping you find a lasting connection. So, say goodbye to that nonsense and embrace who you really are.

Dating gets to feel fun when you show up as yourself. 

Learn how freaking amazing you are and why you want what you want, before you repeat the same old patterns that didn’t work. Don’t jump into a relationship just because it’s available to you.

There’s no shortage of good people to date. Only a false perception that you have to give up on who you are or dim your light to find love.

Live your life to the fullest and relax into the knowledge that everything you want is coming. 

Life and dating should be fun. If you feel stuck in your old story or want help figuring out how freaking amazing you are, I’d love to connect!

We can set up a FREE discovery call to see if we’re a good fit to work together. Fill out my contact form or click ‘GET IN TOUCH’ on my homepage. 

My 1:1 coaching program will walk you through the steps to feel good about your dating life.