So, you’ve gone through a divorce. 

Now what?

I’m truly sorry you went through that difficult experience. No matter the circumstances, divorce is never fun. I’ve been through 2 divorces, so I am right here with you. I understand the pain divorce inevitably brings.

But, despite the pain you’re feeling, this can actually be a wonderful opportunity to spend time getting to know yourself again. You can focus on bringing to light the pieces of yourself you kept hidden.

The first step is to improve your self love. Think about how (and why) you were abandoning yourself in past relationships to feel worthy of love. We’ve all done it, but it’s not doing us any favors so we’re leaving it behind.

Once you’ve started healing your relationship with yourself, you’ll realize how you’ve been playing small and avoiding the work in hopes of fitting in and forcing ‘love.’ But if you can’t show up as yourself, it ain’t real love. 

If you didn’t feel like you could show up as your true self in your relationship, why was that somewhere you wanted to be at all? There are several reasons for this, but we’ll dig into that another time.

Now for the GREAT news: You get the chance to build up the inner king or queen you’ve forgotten to let shine in the past. Since you’re leaving behind self-abandonment, you’re making room to learn how to love your true self. 

See how even a difficult trial like divorce can serve a purpose in your life and bring about something beautiful if you let it? 

If you don’t get anything else out of this message, please understand this. 

No matter what you’ve been through, you’re worthy of love.

And you can absolutely heal to attract an amazing relationship in the future. 

I’ve got 2 programs–6 month 1:1 coaching and a mini VIP day–that are built to keep you accountable and give you the tools to bloom into the person you haven’t allowed yourself to show up as yet.

I’m excited to help you welcome back the real you!